UNANSWERED QUESTIONS

I am the type of person that refuses to be declined knowledge of anything, especially when it had to do with people, places, or other things from my past. I always find answers, because once I find the answer I feel like I had completed something personal. It is good to complete something, even though it will hurt you at some level, because at least now you found the answer......

Of course, there will always be those answers that might never be answered, because that is just the way life toys with us sometimes. Those kind of situations I can handle, not knowing everything,  There will always be individuals who will die trying to find the answer, those people are the ones who miss out on there lives of the present. I almost feel sorry for them, but that will take my appreciation for my own life, and the people around me out of the real focus.  I never want to be, or at least anymore, the person who does almost everything for the answer because that is when life disappears.

Answers, everyone always had an answer, most of which are always to the questions you never asked. I have this friend that I will ask a question, and they start giving me answers to invisible questions without even answering my actual question. That can be frustrating sometimes, because all I am look for is a short simple answer, Example:

Me: How are you today?

friends: I went to the store, then got a part for my car, then went to check on as couple errands....etc.

Those kind of answers are the ones I can't tolerate so much, because it didn't answer my question. Those people give answers like that, just so you can continue to converse with them, because they just like to hear themselves talk. I admit it is a sly way to get someone, to converse with you, but still it can get annoying when you the person really doesn't have something to say and the other person is on them to answer question, after question. So please, when someone ask you 'How are you today?', just answer them, and if they still want to converse let them continue leading the conversation instead of taking it over for the bother of you.

Now that I have that off my chest, please enjoy the rest of you day....